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I’m Sanaiyah! A love and relationship coach, speaker, and writer. I’m passionate about helping women make love their power move—in relationships, life, and business.
Hey! I’m Sanaiyah
A love and relationship coach, speaker, and writer. I’m passionate about helping women make love their power move—in relationships, life, and business.
Turns out, Self-love was the strategy
I’d been searching for all along.
I’ve lived through heartbreak, self-doubt, and the kind of patterns that keep repeating until you finally wake up and say, “I’m done.”
For years, I gave my power away—searching for love, losing myself in it, and carrying the weight of old wounds into every relationship that followed.
But it wasn’t just in love.
I poured the same perfectionism into my career. I graduated from an Ivy League university, launched multiple businesses, earned advanced degrees and awards, checked every box… yet somehow, it still didn’t feel like enough.
Because I was building my life from a place of proving, not from a place of belonging.
But somewhere in the middle of all that mess, I realized something profound: The most important relationship I would ever have…was with myself.
Turns out, Self-love was the strategy
I’d been searching for all along.
I’ve lived through heartbreak, self-doubt, and the kind of patterns that keep repeating until you finally wake up and say, “I’m done.”
For years, I gave my power away—searching for love, losing myself in it, and carrying the weight of old wounds into every relationship that followed.
But it wasn’t just in love.
I poured the same perfectionism into my career. I graduated from an Ivy League university, launched multiple businesses, earned advanced degrees and awards, checked every box… yet somehow, it still didn’t feel like enough.
Because I was building my life from a place of proving, not from a place of belonging.
But somewhere in the middle of all that mess, I realized something profound: The most important relationship I would ever have…was with myself.
I stopped chasing love, success, and perfection—and started choosing me.
That’s when everything began to shift.
I did the deep work.
I healed what hurt.
I rewired the beliefs that told me I wasn’t enough.
I stopped abandoning myself to meet expectations—and started honoring who I really was.
And as I returned to myself, everything else came into alignment.
I found the kind of love I knew I deserved.
I rebuilt my business with intention and purpose.
I stopped proving—and started leading.
But more than anything?
I found a version of me I had never met before.
The real me. The powerful me. The whole me.
I stopped chasing love, success, and
perfection—and started choosing me.
That’s when everything began to shift.
I did the deep work.
I healed what hurt.
I rewired the beliefs that told me I wasn’t enough.
I stopped abandoning myself to meet expectations—and started honoring who I really was.
And as I returned to myself, everything else came into alignment.
I found the kind of love I knew I deserved.
I rebuilt my business with intention and purpose.
I stopped proving—and started leading.
But more than anything?
I found a version of me I had never met before.
The real me. The powerful me. The whole me.
Now, I help you stop proving from lack—and start living from love.
As a Relationship Reinvention Coach, ThetaHealing® Master Practitioner, and Love Alchemist, I help high-achieving women make love their ultimate power move—in love, life, and business.
Over the past 15 years, I’ve helped over 10,000 people break free from toxic patterns, heal emotional wounds, attract the love they want, and step into unshakable self-worth.
I founded The Third Eye Wellbeing centers in Dubai and Manila—where I’ve pioneered the movement for inner transformation and personal growth—and co-own The Wellness Collective, a talent agency for well-being experts and speakers expanding the healing movement across the globe.
My journey weaves together spiritual wisdom, business acumen, and a global perspective. I hold degrees from the University of Pennsylvania and a Masters in Entrepreneurship from the Ateneo Graduate School of Business, where I also served as an Assistant Professor. The business I built was featured in Health and Wellness Entrepreneurship, a book now used to teach future entrepreneurs.
But what I’m most proud of? Helping women become their own top priority, biggest fan, and loudest cheerleader.
Because when you choose yourself—you don’t just change your life—you redefine what’s possible.
Now, I help you stop proving from lack—and start living from love.
As a Relationship Reinvention Coach, ThetaHealing® Master Practitioner, and Love Alchemist, I help high-achieving women make love their ultimate power move—in love, life, and business.
Over the past 15 years, I’ve helped over 10,000 people break free from toxic patterns, heal emotional wounds, attract the love they want, and step into unshakable self-worth.
I founded The Third Eye Wellbeing centers in Dubai and Manila—where I’ve pioneered the movement for inner transformation and personal growth—and co-own The Wellness Collective, a talent agency for well-being experts and speakers expanding the healing movement across the globe.
My journey weaves together spiritual wisdom, business acumen, and a global perspective. I hold degrees from the University of Pennsylvania and a Masters in Entrepreneurship from the Ateneo Graduate School of Business, where I also served as an Assistant Professor. The business I built was featured in Health and Wellness Entrepreneurship, a book now used to teach future entrepreneurs.
But what I’m most proud of? Helping women become their own top priority, biggest fan, and loudest cheerleader.
Because when you choose yourself—you don’t just change your life—you redefine what’s possible.
It’s not about finding the one. It’s about becoming
the one—for yourself first.
My work goes beyond love and relationships.
It’s about helping you come home to yourself—
To lead with love instead of fear.
To show up from wholeness, not wounds.
To finally live a life that feels aligned, meaningful, and yours.
Whether you’re holding on to the past, struggling in love, or simply tired of not feeling enough—this is your turning point.
The Spotify Top 50 & #1 Trending Podcast That Started a Global Self-Love Movement
I created a podcast to take the conversation deeper—beyond surface-level advice and into the real, messy, beautiful work of embracing who you are and letting go of who you’re not.
What started as my personal healing journey quickly grew into a movement.
Project Loving Myself became a Spotify Top 50 and #1 Trending Podcast by its 19th episode, reaching thousands of listeners who saw themselves in the stories—seeking healing, searching for truth, and finally looking inward.
Every week, I share powerful stories, transformative insights, and self-love rituals that help you stop chasing validation and start rediscovering yourself.
Because self-love isn’t just a buzzword—it’s your untapped potential.
It’s not about finding the one.
It’s about becoming
the one—for yourself first.
My work goes beyond love and relationships.
It’s about helping you come home to yourself—
To lead with love instead of fear.
To show up from wholeness, not wounds.
To finally live a life that feels aligned, meaningful, and yours.
Whether you’re holding on to the past, struggling in love, or simply tired of not feeling enough—
this is your turning point.
The Spotify Top 50 & #1 Trending Podcast That Started a Global Self-Love Movement
I created a podcast to take the conversation deeper—beyond surface-level advice and into the real, messy, beautiful work of embracing who you are and letting go of who you’re not.
What started as my personal healing journey quickly grew into a movement.
Project Loving Myself became a Spotify Top 50 and #1 Trending Podcast by its 19th episode, reaching thousands of listeners who saw themselves in the stories—seeking healing, searching for truth, and finally looking inward.
Every week, I share powerful stories, transformative insights, and self-love rituals that help you stop chasing validation and start rediscovering yourself.
Because self-love isn’t just a buzzword—it’s your untapped potential.
Leading with Love
Inspiring Inner Shifts That Create Outer Impact
As a keynote speaker, I help leaders, entrepreneurs, and changemakers infuse more love, presence, and power into how they lead, connect, and succeed.
Through a powerful blend of storytelling, science-backed strategies, and emotionally-resonant truths, I guide audiences to uncover limiting mindsets, recognize deeply rooted patterns, and awaken a new way of living and leading—powered by love.
My talks go beyond motivation.
They’re immersive, heart-opening, and designed to create real, lasting change.
I’ve spoken for global organizations like TEDx, Banyan Tree Hotels, Entrepreneurs’ Organization (EO), the Asian Development Bank, and the Philippine Stock Exchange—and I’ve been featured on CNN four times, along with Gulf News, Cosmopolitan, Tatler, and more.
Because when leaders do the inner work, they don’t just inspire change—they become it.
Leading with Love
Inspiring Inner Shifts That Create Outer Impact
As a keynote speaker, I help leaders, entrepreneurs, and changemakers infuse more love, presence, and power into how they lead, connect, and succeed.
Through a powerful blend of storytelling, science-backed strategies, and emotionally-resonant truths, I guide audiences to uncover limiting mindsets, recognize deeply rooted patterns, and awaken a new way of living and leading—powered by love.
My talks go beyond motivation.
They’re immersive, heart-opening, and designed to create real, lasting change.
I’ve spoken for global organizations like TEDx, Banyan Tree Hotels, Entrepreneurs’ Organization (EO), the Asian Development Bank, and the Philippine Stock Exchange—and I’ve been featured on CNN four times, along with Gulf News, Cosmopolitan, Tatler, and more.
Because when leaders do the inner work, they don’t just inspire change—they become it.
Still or Sparkling?
Sparkling, always—with a twist of lemon. Vibrant, full of life, and
just a little extra zest. Just like me.
Here’s a glimpse behind the scenes:
- 1. I love a mean cup of coffee—certified barista energy.
- 2. Dance like nobody’s watching? Always. Especially to Bollywood beats.
- 3. Give me waves, sand, or a barefoot walk on the beach, and I’m in my happy place.
- 4. Mama to two compassionate boys and a powerhouse daughter in the making—just like her mama.
- 5. Born in Taiwan, raised in Japan, fluent in English, Japanese, Hindi, and Bahasa—and yes, I’ve also lived in the U.S. and Dubai. Home? It’s more a feeling than a place.
Here’s What I Know for Sure
Love is your greatest power.
And the moment you start loving yourself, you unlock it.
Not the kind of love you chase, have to earn, or look for outside of yourself.
But the kind that comes from within—unshakable, undeniable, and real.
Because when you start living—and leading—from love,
you get back on track.
You reconnect with your purpose.
You find meaning in what you do.
And you finally start creating the life you were meant to live.
You break the cycles.
You end the patterns.
You stop getting in your own way.
And that’s when you finally feel free—to live the life you want and be who you truly are.
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Everybody Needs More Love
More love. More power. More you. With a little soul + spice—just for my inner circle.
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Still or Sparkling?
Sparkling, always—with a twist of lemon. Vibrant, full of life, and just a little extra zest. Just like me.
Here’s a glimpse behind the scenes:
- 1. I love a mean cup of coffee—certified barista energy.
- 2. Dance like nobody’s watching? Always. Especially to Bollywood beats.
- 3. Give me waves, sand, or a barefoot walk on the beach, and I’m in my happy place.
- 4. Mama to two compassionate boys and a powerhouse daughter in the making—just like her mama.
- 5. Born in Taiwan, raised in Japan, fluent in English, Japanese, Hindi, and Bahasa—and yes, I’ve also lived in the U.S. and Dubai. Home? It’s more a feeling than a place.
Here’s What I Know for Sure
Love is your greatest power.
And the moment you start loving yourself, you unlock it.
Not the kind of love you chase, have to earn, or look for outside of yourself.
But the kind that comes from within—unshakable, undeniable, and real.
Because when you start living—and leading—from love,
you get back on track.
You reconnect with your purpose.
You find meaning in what you do.
And you finally start creating the life you were meant to live.
You break the cycles.
You end the patterns.
You stop getting in your own way.
And that’s when you finally feel free—to live the life you want and be who you truly are.
Get Started
Connect with me
Everybody Needs More Love
More love. More power. More you. With a little soul + spice—just for my inner circle.
"*" indicates required fields
Connect with me